From Confusion to Stories: The Unpredictable Path of My BDSM and Writing Adventure

Writing is an adventure filled with unexpected twists and turns. For some, it starts with a love for storytelling, while for others, it emerges out of nowhere. In this blog post, I invite you to join me on my own writing journey, sharing a few moments and experiences that transformed me from scribbling chaotic notes into writing (hopefully) sexy and enjoyable stories.

The Early Days: Where It All Began

I think I’ve always been into BDSM. My earliest sexual thoughts revolved around bondage. My school friends must’ve thought I was really weird as when they came round to mine we nearly always ended up playing Cowboys and Indians and somebody, normally a squaw girl, got captured and tied to a totem pole. Well more accurately a tree in our garden which doubled up as a totem pole!

I felt a mix of exhilaration and confusion. I had no idea why I wanted this…. It seemed very strange wanting to tie somebody up but I knew I loved it.

Confused teenager to the Present: A Continuous Journey

As I transitioned into adulthood, I found that my fascination and appreciation for all things BDSM only deepened. This intricate world of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and sadomasochism continued to intrigue me, offering a complex tapestry of emotions, desires, and power dynamics to explore. The exploration of BDSM allowed me to delve into the realms of trust, communication, and consent in ways that enriched my understanding of relationships and intimacy.

Through this journey, as well as the power of dominance, I discovered the beauty of vulnerability, the strength in surrender, and the importance of mutual respect within the dynamics of power play. Embracing the diverse spectrum of BDSM practices, from gentle sensual sensory experiences to intense physical pain, opened up a realm of self-discovery and personal growth that transcended societal norms and expectations. As I navigated the complexities of adulthood, the love for BDSM became not just a part of my identity but a profound source of empowerment, connection, and self-expression that continues to shape my journey of self-discovery and acceptance even now.

For many years, Sarah and I have embarked on a thrilling journey of exploration and discovery together. Our shared passion for pushing boundaries and embracing our desires has brought us closer in ways that words can hardly describe. It is truly a stroke of luck that Sarah shares the same adventurous spirit and openness to exploring the realms of kinkiness as I do. This compatibility has not only deepened our connection and love but also enriched our experiences, allowing us to delve into uncharted territories of pleasure and intimacy.

Together, we have uncovered hidden facets of ourselves and each other, fostering a sense of trust, understanding, and excitement that continues to evolve with every new adventure we embark on. Sarah's keenness to embrace her kinky side has not only fuelled the fire within me but has also opened up a world of possibilities that we continue to explore with enthusiasm that thrills us both. Our journey together is a testament to the beauty of finding a kindred spirit with whom to navigate the confusing complexities of desire and passion, creating a bond that is as exhilarating as it is profound.

I've always had a deep-seated passion for writing, a desire that has been a constant companion throughout my life. However, despite my best intentions, the pressures of work and the responsibilities of daily living overshadowed my dreams of putting pen to paper. Since moving to France, my world has shifted dramatically. The bustling energy of my old environment has been replaced by tranquility and peace. This change has not only been geographical but also deeply personal, as I now embrace a slower pace of life, savoring each moment with newfound appreciation.

And so in my early 60s I actually started to write! The yearning to express myself through words had never waned, lingering in the background as a persistent reminder, but now I’m actually doing it, offering a glimpse of the fulfilment that awaits me on the other side of self-expression.

One of my reviewers described my writing as wank fodder. He probably doesn’t realise that as a kinky old fucker he’s actually paying me a huge compliment!